The process of getting from the street to a home is lengthy and maddening, but if you really want to, you can do it.  You have to be willing to follow very specific steps and rules and comply with certain policies, even though it is frustrating.

If you are homeless and looking for a shelter, start with this step: All shelters require a TB test. Go first to your local clinic and get one.   My suggestion for Oxnard is Las Islas, because you can walk in.  It may take a while.  Like, hours.  It will take 48 hours to verify and you usually can't get  into a place before that.  You will need one for you and any children who will be living with you where you are going.  

Sit tight.

Either while you wait for your TB test or afterward, call a local shelter and ask for a phone interview.  Be prepared to answer any questions they ask, even if they seem nosy.  Try to be patient and be honest.  People do want to help, and they don't know you so they have to ask certain questions.  You may get shut down at this point.  Don't be discouraged.  

Just try another place.

The initial intake interview is often lengthy.  There may be personal questions that you don't know how to answer or don't want to answer, but answer them politely to the best of your ability.  Most shelters will ask about your income and may require you to put a portion of it aside to save for a new place.  This means that for as long as you live there, they have some control over your income.  It is part of the process and it is not forever.  The end product will be that you have money for a place of your own.  It will be worth it.  

All shelters have rules and procedures that people have to follow.  Some of them will require you and your children to get up very early and get outside.  This is not ideal, but it is temporary.  Take advantage of places that are open and free, like libraries and even local churches.  Be where you can continue to work or get help.  Do your best to have a positive attitude in this place even though it will be very difficult.  If a shelter has a limit to the months you are allowed to stay, but you are easy to get along with, they may extend your stay if you need it.  You can also use this time to see what provisions are available for section 8.  Use the library to look up 211 and research every available assistance program.